Bruce, aged 56, was highly active. He ran half marathons, he enjoyed swimming, and cycled in all weathers. Bruce worked for Natwest Insurance and then had a career change as a Prison Officer. But his world fell apart when Bruce developed Multiple Sclerosis (MS), which led to both legs being amputated after catching an infection.
Bruce says, “It’s hard accepting my life as an amputee. I lost my hobbies and physical abilities. It was mentally painful. At Paul’s Place, I met my partner, Sue, found a community, and the charity has activities for keeping my mind active and occupied.”
Bruce doesn’t like relying on others. Staying independent is important to Bruce, but his electric wheelchair can make using public transport difficult.
When it comes to pain, Bruce now has a high threshold. After his double leg (Bilateral) amputation, Bruce has fallen from his wheelchair and broke multiple bones. His ribs, hip and lower spine to name a few.
Bruce says, “I feel mental rather than physical pain, but I get on with it.”
Bruce kept in touch with his old work colleagues at Natwest Insurance. They regularly meet up for pub quizzes in Emersons Green. The pub recently closed and it’s uncertain what the future holds when staying in touch.
Bruce says, “It was tough seeing my previous work colleagues progress through life, such as having children, which I cannot have”.
Moving forward, Bruce says, “I’m determined not to give up”.
He shares the same mindset with his partner, Sue, who is also physically disabled. He’s willing to try anything. So far, Bruce has competed at skittles and quizzes, he enjoys mastering a crossword and catching fish with his friends at Paul’s Place.
At Paul’s Place, Bruce feels less alone, and it’s an opportunity to experience new places and create new memories with his partner.
Bruce is excited about our move to Paul’s Place Hub in Shire Way. It will create opportunities for more regular activities, accessible sports, and various therapies, all conveniently offered in one location with multiple dedicated rooms. Although the entire building is being refitted and refurbished for physically disabled people, the community can hire space to run groups and activities which our members can join.
Bruce smiled with relief when hearing this news.
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